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06. Creating safety within with Soma Miller


In this episode, Soma Miller shares a transformative vision for modern masculinity, discussing how men can redefine their relationship to themselves and others through deep inner work. He explores the power of reparenting the nervous system, emphasizing the importance of meeting childhood needs to prevent unconscious void-filling. Soma brings a unique “East meets West” perspective to his coaching, blending indigenous wisdom, shadow work, and somatic practices.

 

We also dive into…

  • How safety and challenge work together to foster healing and growth
  • A man’s relationship to the feminine as a mirror of his inner world
  • The influence of Lakota traditions and connecting to nature as a masculine balance
  • Why mentorship and community spaces model healthy nervous systems
  • How fatherhood reshaped his understanding of masculinity
  • Embracing and honoring the unconscious self with reverence for the feminine
  • Navigating confrontation and aggression without losing inner power
  • Soma's group program and its role in supporting men’s journeys

Soma Miller is a father, transformational men’s coach, and visionary at the forefront of redefining modern masculinity. Fusing shadow work, somatic practices, indigenous wisdom, and relational mastery, Soma guides men to align with their deepest values, creating secure, sexy intimacy and a life fueled by purpose and impact. Devoted to fostering emotionally mature and empowered masculinity, Soma is passionate about helping men break through societal conditioning to live authentically, connect deeply, and lead with integrity.

 

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