You’re in relationship with the one you want to build a life with.

Or maybe you’re preparing for your next relationship, longing to do it better the next time.

But you’ve seen what happens...

You partner falls in love with a beautifully empowered version of you

Who knows what she wants,

Walks around in her own magic,

Has a mysterious way about her…

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But then time goes on and it slowly happens without you even noticing it.

The excitement and polarity fades,

You begin to merge together.

Your ‘ME’ starts to fade into the “WE.”

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You begin to realize your friendships, passions, and purpose have all fell to the wayside.

You rely on your partner or they depend on you for emotional support in a way that feels draining and unsexy to you both.

When your partner is in the room, your focus is always on them, even if only subtly. 

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You are deep in the vortex of relationship and… you start to lose your spark.

You begin sliding into rhythms that aren’t your natural rhythms and habits that aren’t serving your highest self.  

We don’t have a lot of great role models for healthy sovereignty in relationships.

•We see the “I don’t need a man,” ideology.

•We see the “Twin Flames,” “Best Friend,” “Other Half,” mentality.

•We see the couple who barely knows each other.

•We see the couple that is together 24/7.

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But what about a relationship...

where both of you are vibrating with your own life force energy, moving towards your dreams, dancing with your mission…

Side by side.

Both of you supporting each others paths, ways of being, beliefs, values, curiosities.

Both of you supported by the net of friends, space-holders, community, and tools that you have nurtured and cultivated.

You’re genuinely excited to see each other.

You truly respect one another.

You can barely wait to keep getting to know one another.

I didn't used to fully believe this was possible. 

Rewind to 4 years ago when I was splitting up with my last parter. Within that beautiful, loving relationship I had lost touch with myself. I had forgotten to take care of myself and listen to my body. In my admiration and respect for his ideas and perspectives, I let go of my connection to my own.

When we split up I thought that the only way to return to myself was to not be in relationship. A month later I met my current partner and fiancé and while I tried to shrug it off for a minute, I quickly realized I didn’t stand a chance at denying what that mocha skin, brilliant mind, and earthy heart did to me. I was in.

And so thus began my journey of learning to hold my sovereignty while in relationship.

I knew I had no choice.

It was either going to learn to do this right or sabotage myself and the relationship by way of self-abandonment

and goddamnit, I wanted to do it right.

If I wanted to make this work I was going to have to learn how to keep myself whole while in partnership.

So I have spent the past several years in a deep practice of maintaining healthy sovereignty while in the best relationship of my life.

And it’s no coincidence that it’s the best relationship of my life. 

I am more connected to myself than I ever have been.

My physical, mental, emotional, and energetic sovereignty

Around my body, my purpose, my life path, my beliefs…

Allow us to truly meet each other.

Not from a place of “I need you,” but from “I want you.”

This course is a space for you to cultivate a wholistic net of support and inspiration underneath you so you can return to your spark.

Your sense of self.

Your direction and purpose and soul mission.

Sovereign in Love gives you the tools to go deep within so you can show up to your relationship whole, true, and magnetically you.