Sexual Self Mastery for Men

SEXUAL SELF MASTERY

Discover the freedom, confidence, and vitality that come from true self-mastery.

A 12 week online intensive

Begins February 1, 2025

Become the best lover she has ever had.

Yes, Sexual Self Mastery is a practical course that provides step-by-step practices on sexual skills. But it’s way deeper than that.

SSM helps you shift your relationship to sex on a fundamental level. It provides you the tools to have sex with an entirely upgraded approach.

Sure, she’ll be impressed with your new techniques and understanding of women’s anatomy.

But she'll be blown away by the unexplainable way that her body and heart open to you.

The feeling of your energy.

The ineffable je ne sais quoi in the way you love.

Over 12 weeks, we focus on transforming your conditioning and your nervous system to become a more grounded & masterful lover. SSM helps you cultivate a presence that is deeply attractive, making you a solid and exciting lover who doesn't chase or withhold love.

It invites you to do the very thing that sets you apart from other men:

To feel yourself.

To know yourself.

To be yourself.

I'm Fabienne,

I am a certified sex & relationship coach. I help men around the world to embody their sexual power with integrity through the use of ancient Tantric practices & therapeutic techniques based on modern day neuroscience.

Why learn from a woman, you might ask? I bring an insider's perspective on what women truly desire, helping you embody the qualities that attract & deeply satisfy- physically, mentally, & spiritually. Learning sexual mastery from a woman gives you unique insights and advantages that will uplevel your game to the Nth degree.

Come for the better sex...

Stay for the

•increased motivation

•clearer life purpose

•confidence

•increased cognitive function

•overall happiness

•spiritual depth

•deeper relationships

“Once I experienced sex like that, there weren’t any other options. I only wanted to be with a man who could make love on that level.

No matter how “skilled” other men have been, nothing has come close to him. He felt me like no other man has. He opened me like no other man has.

He left an imprint on me that can only be matched by that level of depth or more.”

Why men come to SSM...

•Have control over your sexual energy so it doesn’t control you.

•Last longer. Get harder.

•Drop out of your head & into your body.

•Feel the deeper layers of sex that you know exist...

•Be a safe man yet an exciting, ravishing lover.

•Know your own turn ons & sexual style.

What results can you expect?

Just like training at the gym, you need to show up and do your reps to see results. If you show up and do your recorded practices, you can expect to see big shifts.

Physical:

-More control over if and when you ejaculate

-Experience harder erections and last longer

-Have the tools to experience full-bodied, non-ejaculatory orgasms.

-Increase testosterone

Energetic:

-Feel sexier, more magnetic, & more confident, in the bedroom & out

-Rewire your nervous system to be able to hold greater levels of turn-on and internal power.

Relational:

-Experience greater intimacy during sex

-Understand what your lover most deeply craves and become their literal dream lover

I'm ready.

THIS COURSE IS A THREE MONTH INTENSIVE FOCUSED ON EVOLVING YOUR SEXUALITY IN AN EMBODIED WAY.

Just understanding sexual practices isn't enough to make lasting effects.

This program provides a system that works by examining the psychology behind your sexual history and conditioning and then implementing practices to physically train your body in new, healthy ways.

Simultaneously, I'll be sharing the ins and outs of how women most deeply desire to be fucked. In detail.

I'll give you the tools to be the best lover she's ever had. To re-ignite the passion in your marriage. To attract incredible, high-caliber women.

What others are saying...

"This is such a well run course. It is so practical & practice driven. I have taken a bunch of men’s sexuality courses & this one is really tying things in for me, and giving me a deeper understanding of the topics. I am having regular breakthroughs. I can’t thank you enough." - Ari

I’m noticing more clarity about what I want in a partner. I'm discovering more options in how I can operate sexually. And my cock actually feels better.

— Andrew

Since starting SSM I’ve noticed more sensations, more control. I feel more calm, focused & present in the day. During the practices I'm feeling extremely strong orgasmic feelings while still feeling very in control.

— Elan

I notice my general sex drive is more online, I feel more polarized and willing to engage. Once engaged I feel notably more present, passionate.

— Danny

I really appreciate that you don’t tiptoe around certain questions. I’m able to get right into the heart of things when I hear your questions.

— Benjamin

Amazing course so far. The guided practices are the best I have ever experienced in a course, & I have taken a few.

— Rob

YOU WILL LEARN ABOUT...

•How frequent, unconscious ejaculation affects your hormones and brain chemistry and how to increase neural health and performance through semen retention and conscious ejaculation.

•Different approaches to semen retention and energetic mastery, including Indian Tantra, Taoist practices, Chinese medicine, and modern neuroscience.

•How to separate orgasm from ejaculation so you can experience full-bodied orgasms that leave you filled with energy, focus, mental clarity, confidence, and motivation.

•How you can reframe your approach to sex by training your relationship to masturbation.

•Investigating and developing your own flavor of sexy and how to bring this energy into your life.

THIS COURSE IS FOR YOU IF…

You have a penis.
You recognize the capacity within yourself to be a deeply powerful lover.
You want to better understand yourself and what drives you.
You are in the small percentage of men who will dedicate themselves to understanding how to be a sexual leader.
You are ready to commit yourself to a practice and hold yourself accountable to making shifts in your mindset and actions in the direction of a more integrated, pleasurable, and connected life.

Module 1: Building Your Toolbelt

Module 2: Developing Self Practice

Module 3: Take Back Your Energy

Module 4: Masculine Shadow

Module 5: Male Sensuality

Module 6: The Power of Presence

Module 7: Being a Leader in the Bedroom

Module 8: Sexual Creativity

Please Note: This course is an intensive and requires you to set aside a good amount of time for your practice. You are asked to set aside 25 minutes for your morning practice and an additional 30 minutes 1-3 times a week to training practices. There is also a 90 minute live call every week.

Please only join the course if you are fully prepared to carve out time and commit to your practices.

**What's included in Sexual Self Mastery:**

Twelve weekly 90 min live trainings and Q&A (Tuesdays at 10 am PST or Wednesdays at 5 pm; you can commit to either cohort, depending on your schedule)
The first calls are on September 24 & 25
6+ hours of recorded instructional videos
Weekly recorded morning practices for strengthening the energetic body and anchoring the techniques into your system
Weekly guided pleasure practices for a deep embodied understanding of the teachings
Journal prompts for self-investigation and awareness
Access to a members-only group to be part of a group of like-minded men to initiate connection and accountability
Lifetime access to course content (*see FAQ for details)

Bonus:

Recorded pelvic floor strengthening, toning, and relaxation practice
Additional practice recordings each week with music and soundscapes to help you drop in even deeper

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